My main man and I are fairly new to the swinger's scene, and at the cusp of being polyamorous. In the interest of putting each other first in our lives, we've come up with some beginning rules for our encounters.
Non-Negotiable Rules:
No playing in the house while the children are there.
The male party(ies) will ALWAYS wear condoms. Yes, they suck, but that's what lube is for. We like sliquid silver.
As of right now, the female half of this couple (ME) is NOT allowed to do more than kiss and flirt with other guys in very not-private places (I'm not stupid enough to think I can reason with hormones). Girls: hell yes! (I'm still looking for the girl who will let me go down on her while my main man watches to confirm my status as the "BEST WIFE EVER!")
HONESTY is best. I hate head games and I don't play them. (That probably confused a lot of guys back when I was vanilla dating, sorry!)
I've also posted these on the right, so they will always be there for anyone that stumbles across this site. It also clarifies for my main man and I what the rules are BEFORE we are in a situation that could cause potential harm to our marriage.
Oh, and I'm in such an awesome mood today, I think I'm going to post TWO pictures for HNT tomorrow!
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