Damn Vanillas

What IS it with 'vanilla' guys? Seriously!

I've had TWO vanilla guys totally stand me up for a hookup! I mean, they SAY they want to hook up with me, but when it comes down to scheduling, they stop returning my messages. I mean, I know that everyone has a life and it gets busy sometimes, but damn!

Do they want MORE than just a hookup, or is the thought of a married woman just out for a good time turn them off for some reason?

It's not like I'm losing a friend if I let them go, but it still bugs my ego. It seems to be a bit more fragile than I thought.

I think I'll stick to the guys from the swinger's sites, they're really good at building up my ego. And giving me really lovely orgasms.


This week also includes Valentine's Day. My Main Man and I are going to a restaurant that a friend of ours manages, and it's always really good. I'm really craving one of his special sushi roles, so I need to remember to ask him for one! If he's working, that is. I forgot to ask him when we made our reservation. Oh well, I still need to find a sitter anyway!

And what's up with this really hot guy at the gym this morning that got on the treadmill right next to me JUST as I was finishing up? Dammit!

And I promise to get an HNT up this week. I had one for last week, but didn't get it uploaded to the computer in time. It's now ready to go, just waiting. PROMISE!