yeah, I know...

I'm a slacker.  I totally blew off HNT this week.  Maybe next week.

In other news, I've had a mental breakthrough regarding vanillas.  At least in regards to what I'm looking for.  And this applies to both the males AND the females.  

They may SAY they just want a hook-up or a fuck-buddy, but they're REALLY looking for a relationship.  And they will always put looking for a relationship before looking for a hookup.  Or their hook-ups are only with potential relationships.   (And then there's the friend who's so totally involved with his new girl that he doesn't even have time for me to pick his brain about vanilla boys!  Although he does share his ciggies with me and make me awesome sushi, so I guess I'll let it slide.)

And I'm okay with that aspect.  I'm very tepidly putting my toes into the bi- and lesbian scene around here, so I'm going to try and remember this applies to BOTH sexes.  Although I did have a very hot lady connect with me on Myspace today, AND she's local!  So we'll see how it goes.

Also, my BIRTHDAY is coming up soon, and there will be a full week's worth of debauchery to be had.  I've got two single guys, one couple (for a foursome), and two seperate threesomes lined up.  Oh, don't you wish you were me!  I can't wait!

And then I'll be out of commision for at least a month starting May 14th.   But that's a story for another day.