Last Friday evening, I went to dinner with my Main Man's lover (who happens to be single and wicked smart) and we had a discussion about my previous post about vanillas.
Basically, her response was "Welcome to my world!"
For some reason, and I vaguely remember this from my dating experiences (almost 10 years ago), many guys like to chase, but as soon as you show interest and respond, they run away. And they do this to ALL the girls. Not just a select few.
But when a guy does that to a girl, usually she has no fucking clue as to why, is left completely bewildered and wonders what the hell she did wrong or if she isn't cute enough. It lowers our self-confidence and belief in ourselves.
And then these same men have the nerve to complain about women with no self-confidence.
Even though many of us women KNOW in our head that the rejection has nothing to us, it still bugs us. Why would someone show interest in us and then turn us down when we show interest back? It's just not... logical.
So yeah, I think I'm gonna just hang with the two really hot guys that I'm seeing right now. There will be no more random guys from the vanilla pool, that's for sure. And the next time I hear some vanilla guy complain about all the games women play on them, I'm gonna smack the shit out of them.
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